Ok so I have a guy best friend... I met him about a year and a half ago, and we have been close since we met. I had a boyfriend when we met and up until a few months ago. Everyone always would make jokes about us “flirting” and say stuff like “aw cute couple.” My boyfriend hated him because he thought we were flirting with each other, which we weren’t. I never had any thoughts of getting with this guy, I was only focused on my bf. I was told by my bf that I wasn’t allowed to see my friend, but I still would hangout with him with our mutual friends. He and I became very close. I have always had a hard time opening up to boyfriends bc every time I did I would be told that I was over dramatic, so this guy (my bsf) became my emotional support. I would rant to him, cry to him about things going on, and talk to him about all my mental health problems. So this guy knows everything about my issues. Well me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago. After the break up he became my number one person to go to and I started catching feelings. After about a month of being broken up my bsf kissed me. We had already started been cuddley and touchy with each other after the break up. But yes he kissed me and now we’ve been talking for a few weeks and we see each other all the time, and I’m so happy. This is the first time in like 5 years that I’ve been genuinely happy. But we can’t really tell anyone right now because we have a tight small friend group and we don’t want the dynamic to change, so I decided to share here bc I’ve been dying to tell someone.