my husband and i have been trying for a baby since i stopped my birth control (pill) in december. i was in it for like a year but i would never take it regularly. i know it takes time for the hormones to leave the system but it’s a little disheartening every month i get a neg. test. it’s even more disheartening when my husband has gotten other women pregnant before, but sadly she miscarried. I always beat myself up about it because i feel like it’s me. and it doesn’t make matters better that him and i have sex multiple times a day everyday. im just losing hope.