When did sex start to feel good for you after losing your virginity

I never had pleasure issues but thing got tremendously better when we started communicating more and doing a lot more foreplay (more than making out).

The moment he put it in.

It never felt pleasure with my first partner. My mind would always spin off and disconnect from the experience and I would end up doing a full rendition of some musical number in my head. I learned I just wasn't that into my partner, on a sexual or emotional level. My second partner never had that problem as I connected to him more, and though it isn't perfect everytime it did matter more I cared deeply for him.

i had the same issue starting out. with women, we’re a lot more mental than physical when it comes to being turned on during sex. like sometimes a little clit action helps for sure but it helps if you’re thinking about all the things that turn you on about your s/o and the little things they do that get you going. that’s what works for me. gotta get in the headspace. that’s why everyone has commented about foreplay. you’re essentially getting yourself excited and ready for sex

About 8-9 months after. It took a while to get used to.

It was awhile for me because there was little to no foreplay.

The same night. It was uncomfortable at first my the guy who broke my virginity was veryyyyy veryyyy patient and in tune with me. So it was up from there

My first time was not good for either of us - it kinda sucked but it’s a funny memory. My second and other few times (with a different dude to my first) was a lot better, but still meh. It wasn’t until I met my husband that it started to get really good. I think the actual connection we had made everything a lot better. I felt (and still do) feel really relaxed and at ease with him so it makes things easier. Plus we do foreplay and he actually makes me orgasm unlike the others so that helps 🤣🤣