Am I being overly sensitive?
I’ve been dating this guy. He traveled out of state to “come see me” since I’m moving in a week. He’s been here since Friday and we’ve planned to go to the movies ever since. He canceled every time. Now, if I were staying here, it wouldn’t be a big deal. But I only have a week left. I don’t have time to make plans just to have them canceled. Soon I’ll be gone for at least 10 weeks. Those of you that have seen my posts before, I’m going to basic training. I won’t have much contact with him or anyone for at least 10 weeks. It just makes me question how are we going to maintain a relationship when I’m gone if we’re literally in the same state right now and I haven’t seen him not once... I even told him today like “don’t leave me hanging tonight” and that’s exactly what he did.
- I understand the emotional distancing thing but he actually says that the distance doesn’t matter. He’s the one encouraging us to be together and reassuring me that we’ll be fine... so why waste the little time I have here?
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