How to get a boyfriend?

Alexandra

I know plenty of guys and go on dates, but they always tend to want something casual/fwb (which I’m not into) or there’s serious red flags (like poor personal hygiene, rude to people, anger issues, etc.) How do I find/attract a decent guy who is interested in a relationship?

Keep in mind I live in a large metropolitan city and am in my early 20s. Also, I don’t drink or do drugs, so that rules out bars.