About 5 months ago my boyfriend and i had sex and I guess I wasn’t wet enough and ended up tearing my vagina. It took about two weeks to fully heal. Those two weeks I couldn’t even put a tampon in or even sitting would cause a lot of pain. Well we ended up not having sex for a little bit because I was scared it would happen again. Well fast forward another month down the line we tried having sex and I know for a fact I was wet but once again I tried inserting a tampon and I couldn’t even get it in because I was in so much pain. We stopped having sex once again and didn’t have sex for three months because I was scared of the same thing happening since the last two times was so painful. Yesterday we finally had sex again and now today I just got my period and I can’t even put a tampon in because of how painful it is.

I’m at my breaking point I don’t know what to do or what is causing this. I know I’m wet enough so I have no idea what it could be. Should I get it looked at by my obgyn? Please someone help me this is putting a strain on my relationship. My boyfriend says he doesn’t care about having sex but I know deep down it makes him upset.