“Moms to be” 😒🙄

Any pregnant woman besides me who don’t like it when people say you’re a “mom to be” or “soon you’ll be a mom”?

I know when people say it they of course have good intentions and do not mean to offend me, but it really bothers me and makes me feel like they will only acknowledge me as a mom or my husband as a dad once the baby is born..I talked with my husband and he too agrees and also wishes people acknowledged that he is currently a dad as well.

My past pregnancy I lost a baby and now I’m 20 weeks with my rainbow baby. I am a mom of two now, and I personally believe that if you are or have ever been pregnant you ARE a mom too!

Just wanted to see if I’m alone and over thinking it or if there are other pregnant woman like me who feel the same??

Also I want to clarify that when people do say that to me or my husband we know they mean no harm and we usually just smile and nod. I’m just sharing how it drives me nuts on the inside lol.