My boyfriend sleeps all day..is it wrong to be annoyed by that?
It’s not like he’s drastically tired after working or anything. We’re both only in school and he’ll do this even when we have nothing to do. Like why invite me over if you’re just gonna sleep all day and expect me to cuddle you the whole time even if I’m not sleepy? Like he’ll actually get mad at me if I don’t lay there with him while he’s sleeping and I’m literally wide awake for hours at a time. It’s like he has no insight into how that is not fun or ideal for me.
He’ll sleep all night, which I’ll do with him, then here comes the daytime and he won’t get out of bed. Even for breakfast. He’s always late for virtual class and today the teacher had to wake him up because he snored a little during class. He won’t get up until around 5-6 pm, gets drunk or does a little homework and then hes back in bed by 9-10 pm. Completely ruining any plans we might have had for that afternoon and saying “we’ll just do it tomorrow”. Then tomorrow never comes because it’s a cycle of oversleeping. He has no sleep disorders. He’s just choosing to sleep.
And then he’ll get mad if I get up from bed and do anything. Like he’ll tell me I’m being fake for not laying with him or something.
Like is it wrong for me to not want to stay in bed all day?
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