Do I tell her?

I’ve been talking on and off to a guy for three years. I’m madly in love with him but I know it’s not returned. He just followed my friend on Instagram and she followed him back. He only follows girls he talks to (we’re not exclusive and I usually mind my business) so this one h u r t lol. I never thought at 24 I would be in this situation. I don’t want to stop her from living her life so I don’t know if I should tell her that I’ve been talking to him or to let it go because I don’t want to seem like the crazy obsessed person who loves someone who doesn’t care about me. Help /: and if you have any advice on moving on, please give it because I’m tired. I’m so tired. :(

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