The last time my mother in law visited my children was when my youngest daughter was 8 weeks old. She is nearly 7 months now.

She doesn’t even text me to ask how my children are ever. But she will comment on photos on Facebook on my profile as if she is is super nanny.

She lives up the road from where we live. She has 10 other grandchildren who she spends time with. For Easter she gave money to my partner instead of bringing it down.

And now because ive posted a meme about grandparents not making an effort she all of a sudden wants to visit this weekend. When she could visit the rest of the week.. but she only wants to visit when her son is there. The weekend is family time, and I’m not wasting it for her to come over now.

I don’t want her here, if it takes a meme for her to realise. I’ve told my partner I don’t want her here and now he’s not talking to me. What would you do? I just feel like why now? She’s missed most of my daughters life and my oldest daughters life.She only knows what she sees on Facebook about them or what my partner tells her about them. Which is sad. My 3 year old doesn’t know her grandparents at all.

Don’t know if I’m being unfair by not wanting her here this weekend.

Also to add- my partners sisters haven’t visited since 8 weeks either and they live 2 streets up. 2 of them. But they visit their auntie who lives on the end of my street.

( we all live very close to eachother)