So my BF and I had protected sex on the 17th of March, he came in the condom but still went out of me. I then gave him head and he came on my thigh... I cleaned it up. I know there’s always a risk but I think we were really safe. My period was due 3 days ago and today is my cycle day 30 and it still hasn’t shown up but I’ve been experiencing my usual pms, acne breakouts, sensitive boobs, mood swings etc... just without the period, is this normal or should I test?

I’m really scared to because I’m 20 and abortions are quite pricey here and my parents are super religious and strict... it’s hectic so the only means I have would be to do it myself and I don’t even know where to start