WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW: I haven’t had sex in a year. Newly married. So this morning my husband tries to put his penis in me and I did all I could to try and relax. It it hurts a little. 1) I wasn’t really wet. I’m in my luteal phase and don’t ovulate until 7 more days. I was fresh out of the tub. But he was really wet. I haven’t bled since my period. He only went in a little and I felt tight so I tried to relax and told him to slow down but I didn’t relax all the way I guess. When he pulled his tip out I was fine and my vagina walls started to contract and that felt good and we kissed passionately. But anyway even though he didn’t cum, I went to go clean up myself, ya know trying to keep it clean. I take pride in my Ph balance. Anyway when I wiped there was a little of his clear pre-cum mucus. You know what I mean. And then a tiny bit of blood! 🩸 I got a mirror and looked to see if it was a cut or tear on the lip or bleeding from inside. I saw blood but from what appears to be the opening of my vulva. Like as if I were on my period. I can’t tell if it’s that type of blood or a tear closer to the perineum. But there was a small amount of fresh bright red blood. Very small amount. This was not rough sex. It lasted all of 3 minutes IF THAT. So I put on white panties and I’m waiting to see if more will come. I’m not hurting but I do feel like something was just at my opening stretching it. PLEASE HELP? 😫Has it happened to you?

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So: I’ve had his penis b4. It’s not enormous.! It’s a nice size. I don’t use tampons and I don’t put sexy toys inside. I haven’t used yoni eggs in about 3 years. The only thing that goes inside is my finger sometimes and not even for pleasure, just to check myself out. I have experienced sexual trauma in early adulthood and now am in my mid 20s. I have experienced a closing up with a partner before since the trauma. However I also experienced high sexual liberation since the trauma. In the current relationship we have great sex and we have had “I’m so ready for this to be over” sex before we decided to abstain till marriage. I don’t think it’s vaginismus where the bag clitches shut because it’s not consistent. But idk what’s going on? We have all natural lube but we didn’t use it because this wasn’t real sex, we were just foolin around b4 work. And it was just the tip with me bent over the bed.