Okay so our first child came into this world by elective induction. Long story. It was a great birth for her. We did well.

I'm pregnant with our second and last baby. He knows I will give birth the safest way determined for this child. But I was explaining since it's my last baby, I'd like to go into labor naturally without induction. He took that like I had regrets about the first birth. And I don't. So he said so why does it even matter to talk about. And I told him bc of my anxiety I need him to be supportive during birth.

We live 45 miles from the hospital we picked for our babies and he keeps saying if I don't do an elective induction I'm going to have her at home or in the car on the way. There's literally two major hospitals north and south from our home that we could be at within 20 min or less. So I was telling him if things progresses that quickly we could just go to one of those. They aren't our preference to deliver at just bc they have a lower level nursery. And the hospital we picked has the top nicu in the state.

Anyways, the conversation just kept escalating. He said I wasn't being logical and that I should trust my doctor more.

But,in my mind he's the one that's not making sense. I do trust my doctor. And if at any given moment my Dr told me to rush to get even a c-section I would not hesitate. I just would love to try to do thing naturally if I'm given the option. I'm not asking for a home birth. Just as little medical intervention as possible. But I don't feel like I can be successful until we are on the same page. I told home he doesn't have to birth the child so he needed to just be quiet and supportive. And e literally said I'd it was my choice we would pick a day and have her so we don't have to be in a hurry or worry about getting our daughter to her grandparents house.

And all I can think is dude you literally just have to sit there during birth so shut up. Ugh!!! Sorry rant over.

If anyone has tips on how to get husband to be a active birth pattern lmk. It's making me just want to birth her alone LOL.