I know I can’t project my feelings onto anyone...but my husband has not been sad about the MC. He was excited that I was pregnant with baby 2...and is even ready to start trying again. But he never showed signs of being sad.

Don’t get me wrong, he was super supportive of my needs (telling me to rest, taking care of our toddler, always asking if I need anything, holding me while I cried...)

Idk why it hurts me that he isn’t sad too.

Yesterday he said something along the lines of “they never even saw a heartbeat” as if my baby was never real. I COMPLETELY broke down crying.

He’s also urged me to look at the “positive” like “it’s your body’s way of preventing having a baby with chromosomal issues” and “we can just try again.”

I guess I’m just upset because, to me, it’s a very real loss.