I'm 5 weeks pregnant with baby number 3, I have a 3 year old and 19 month old. My husband doesn't seem to understand how tiring and hard pregnancy is especially in the first trimester. For example I worked yesterday (up at 5.45 and home at 4.30, I'm a midwife so was on my feet all day and barely got a break or the ability to eat) I then came home had to cook dinner, clean the house bath the kids (because they only want me bathing them at the moment 😒) and then was in bed by 8.30. My husband said he'd do the shopping (online) after the girls went to bed, I then woke up this morning to ask what time I needed to go pick up the groceries and he hadn't done it. (Oh and btw he plays Raid on his phone and managed to play it for 2.5hrs yesterday but was too busy to do anything else)

I don't know how to make him see that he needs to lift his game, and take responsibility for life. I feel like I'm drowning in my to do list and he is quite happy cruising along while I carry him. Any advice on how to get him to see how unfair he's being?