Virginity

I am a teenager in a relationship. I have been wondering this because I don’t know if him and I are going too fast or slow. We are both virgins and I don’t want to have sex until we’ve been dating for at least a year. I was just wondering ( if you lost your virginity in highschool) how old were you when you lost your virginity and how long were you with the person you lost it to before you lost it? Sorry weird question I just like to know where we are at.