So I need some honest feedback. I am almost 21wks pregnant with my second. I am a sahm with a 20 month old. I chace her all day, playing, cleaning, feeding, bathing, basically everything. My husband works 60+ hours a week. (His work demands it. Me working wouldn't change this.) He often tells me that he is to tired and doesn't have time to do anything. Mow the grass, help clean/prep house for his mother coming to stay with us for a week, etc. Then he comes home and wants me to cook him every meal on his days off. I already cooked for and fed my one year old. I don't think it's to much to ask for him to help a bit when he is home. When I tell him I'm exhausted and worried about how I'll be able to keep up with two kids. He just scoffs and says, "Well, you wanted two." Are you fucking kidding me!!! I am so livid! I don't even want to be near him. I really wanna day screw it and not do anything to have the house ready when his mother arrives. If it wasn't for the fact that she would just do it and she already thinks I'm not good enough for him. I probably would. But I would be embarrassed to have her stay with us without doing so. So I'll do it. But I feel like he doesn't get it. I feel like he just thinks I sit here on my ass all day doing nothing. Or playing on my phone while our daughter trashes the house like any bored toddler does when ignored. (This is his watching her while I do anything. Shower, go to a doctors appointment, anything) I am so pissed off and don't know how to resolve this. Or if maybe I'm being overly sensitive because of pregnancy hormones and stress. Is it just me? Am I out of line for expecting a little help? Maybe I'm over reacting to something that shouldn't be a big deal... I don't know. I feel like I either want to scream or cry. Maybe both.