Hi mamas it’s been a while! I’ve been trying to stay as present as I can and avoid being on my phone anyways,

My fiancé and I have been engaged for several months now.. prior to me getting pregnant. Although we decided to wait to get married until next summer because he is in the navy and we didn’t know when he was going to get deployed again. My family is extremely traditional and tend to be judge mental. Even though I’m a full time law student and he is a captain in the navy. We don’t rely on them for anything except for some support. And there’s another twist, my cousin who is married is just two weeks further along than me and just announced it to everyone in my family. She is on my dads side and that side of the family is extremely judge mental and always has been. Now with her telling everyone that she’s pregnant I don’t even think their going to acknowledge my pregnancy or even worse judge me because we’re not married yet. Please send some advice.