I’m 41 years old and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for the last three years. Our third anniversary is tomorrow and so today I haven’t been feeling the greatest I thought I would take a test just to get it out-of-the-way so we wouldn’t be completely heartbroken on our anniversary...it’s the day before my period is due....can it be true? I’m still thinking it can’t be true somehow. In the entire three years that we have been trying I have never gotten a positive pregnancy test.