Recommendations!

So me and my boyfriend barely have sex. My sex drive is higher than his. We probably have sex once every 2-3 weeks. Whenever I ask to have sex he always says tomorrow or maybe. Then we never do. I’m also the only one who asks and it’s getting kinda embarrassing! Now I totally respect him and would never force him or pressure him. But I still have needs, so can anyone recommend any good sex toys that’s good for solo use? :)