Husband with a new job

My Spouse took a job in another state and told me we had to move. He said the only other option besides moving is for me to live with one of my family members here until i get my degree in a year or so. I am scared to move and leave my family. I am very family oriented and love being with our families. He could care less about being close to his family. I also have some health issues that make it hard for me to drive, so seeing my family would be so hard as it would be a 4 hour drive to see them. I have expressed my sadness about the thought of moving and he just gets upset with me and says things like "I am the man and have to provide for us, I make the money so you are going to move with me". Then when he calms down, he tells me he just wants to make sure that I am taken care of and that if we have kids or if I don't want to work, then I can stay home and do as I please. We have been fighting constantly about the move and I honestly have no idea what to do. We are both stressed to the max. I feel lost and nothing feels right. What do I do?? I will so unhappy to leave my family behind, but I will be unhappy being so far away from them. If I have to stay here though and only see him on the weekends that will crush me too. I feel so conflicted that I feel like I'm losing it...