Who is right

I think the only solution right now is breaking up with my bf. He makes me feel very bad and the pressure is horrible right now!

I’ve been with him 8 years. We are 60 miles away from eachother. That’s about a 1 hr 15 min drive. I met him when I was a senior in high school. At that time I didn’t have a job. We didn’t have cars. So he would take the train to come see me every Sunday. That is his day off. He repairs cars and works Monday- Saturday. He is self employed.

Well he got a car and I got a car a year later. I started working at fast food. When you work in fast food it’s almost impossible to get weekends off. I had to lie to my manager and tell him I couldn’t work sundays due to school. I told him I had homework to do. I mean I really did. I did this just so that I can see my bf and hang out with him. I did that for about 1.5 years.

Then I got a different job that paid me more. Initially they wanted to put me on their Saturday and Sunday schedule. Again, I told them I needed Sunday off. I did it to see my bf. They were ok with it since I was still in school.

So pretty much he would see me on Sundays every week for about 5.5 years.

I graduated college and I managed to get a Monday through Friday job! Yay!! Things are going great. But I got offered a job at a great company as supervisor. It relates to my career and I would probably get weekends here and there.

Im so upset! I told my bf how will we see eachother now. I’m trying to seek alternatives. I’ve offered many times to drive over there but my bf says he hates me driving such a long drive and that there isn’t much to do where he lives anyways. He doesn’t like when I drive ...he feels unsafe. He says he will do the driving instead but stick to Sundays.

I will probably get Saturdays or Fridays off. I told him I can go drive to him to see him those two days . He said he will not fuck up his schedule. But he is his own boss!! All these years I’ve put effort to ask for Sunday’s off.

He said he won’t stop working any day of the week. He works Monday -Friday very late depending on the customers he gets. On Saturdays he works half day. Like why can’t we see eachother after work like around 2ish?Sometimes he goes home at 8pm.

I asked if he can push his Saturday work to Sunday that way we can see eachother on Saturday instead. He said no that he has a bunch of work. It really hurts I fought hard to asked for Sundays off. I’m just asking for him to work Sunday :/ he complains that he barely gets to see me yet he doesnt let me drive over there. I have gone and his town is pretty lonely. He lives near farms. I get what he says when he tells me there is much more fun things where I live

Idk if I’m being inconsiderate. Now after 8 years why won’t he move in with me. I told him that

What if we get a place and be got mad saying I expect so much. It just feel like everything has to be done his way