This is going to be long so please bear with me. I'm posting anonymously for obvious reasons. My husband and I started dating when we were just kids, he was 15 I was 14. He wasn't faithful and we broke up but again we were kids. We stayed apart for years. Fast forward to when I was 19 we got back together. He had matured, so had I. We were completely different people so we decided to try again. After our second child my depression was so bad we split again, very briefly. I made the mistake during that time of talking to someone and I didn't stop it when I should have. It was strictly talking. Nothing physical. I just wanted someone to listen to me at the time. My husband (we weren't married at the time) found out said I was cheating, which in a way I guess I was, he said he needed time. This was a very rough time in our relationship. Neither of is were acting like adults and were just being down right spiteful and childish. We are now 24 and 25, have been married almost a year, together for 5. Things are wonderful, we have moved passed our issues, have a strong marriage, are good parents etc. He just told me today that a woman gave him her number at work almost a month ago and HE TEXTED HER. He says it was just to tell her that he wasn't interested, says the woman didn't care that he was married and said they could keep it a secret. He of course deleted the messages 'to avoid drama.' But STILL kept her number in his wallet. I think its good that he told me but I feel kind of offended he waited a month and still had the woman's number in his wallet. If you've made it this far thank you so much for reading. I am hurt and confused. Am I wrong for feeling this way?