What to do when showering with someone??

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So it’s complicated and a long story, but I’m visiting my ex-boyfriend next month cause he moved out of my state and after we broke up we stayed really good friends and even started cuddling and flirting again. He moved though and when I told him I was going to visit him, he threw out the idea of cuddling again when I got there. When I talked to him today he threw out the idea of showering together. We have never done that before or even seen each other naked. I’m fine with doing it but I think it’s going to be awkward cause neither of us know what to do and we have never been that intimate. Any suggestions or tips on how to make it less awkward or things to do that aren’t super sexual? Thanks!

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Sorry, you’re going to be naked and wet. He’s aiming for something sexual here. If you don’t want to do sexual things, I would nip it in the bud and say stick to cuddling. 
Definitely not saying you have to do anything sexual if you choose to do the shower, but realistically, what’s the point if you’re literally just going to shower? At least have a discussion first. It seems like an odd request if you’re not together, nor sexual, nor have you been nude together before.

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Why would you want an ex to see you naked😌

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Why be sexual with an ex. Keep him as an ex. Showing will always end up sexual. Set hard boundaries if you are going into the “hanging with my ex territory “

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He wants to have sex with you again. 
Showering has nothing to do with this at all.

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Being naked and wet is almost inherently sexual in a tight space. 
If you don’t want that don’t shower with him.

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Stick to washing up in the shower..
Take turns of who has the shower head. I typically do wet hair body pass it off. Wash my hair. Get water back rinse, pass back. Condition hair. Get water back rinse. Rinse over body again pass water back. Wash up get water back again rinse and I'm done and out. 
If you are fine with showering but only shower then lay that down and stick to it. 
I personally don't like shower sex anyways. So it's always just for showering for me.

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🚩 he’s trying to be sexual with you. If you have no interest then make it clear and do not shower with him. Sounds like he’s try to turn you into a FWB and you’re falling for it.

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Shower sex is not sexy for me haha! I don’t find it intimate, however, I also think he is looking to make it sexual

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Showering together is literally the most “super sexual” thing. You’re naked and wet and in close proximity and it leads to sex almost all of the time.