What is this? TW about something that happened to me as a mid

• I’m sorry if I don’t belong here I just really don’t know where to post this.

But I need to know.

When I was young; I started feeling really uncomfortable with my step-dad. He did things like talk a lot about my appearance. He would slap my butt if walked by. He would force me to hug him all the time, to the point where I would try to run away, and he would corner me. I used to love walking from my bathroom to my room after a shower(they were right next to each other) in my towel because it cooled off all the steam, but then he started waiting next to the bathroom door to hug me after showers. So I started changing in the bathroom. If I changed in my room he would open the door so frequently if I had to i would change in the closet. When he would drive me to friends houses he would keep his hand on my thigh, I would press myself against the window to be as far away as possible. When no one else was awake in the early morning he would come into my room and rip the covers off of me “to wake me up” then get into bed with me with nothing but his underwear on.

I don’t know if I’m overreacting but this stuff makes me feel so uncomfortable. I unfortunately live on their property still (I am 25 now and this happened around 12-15) and I just hate being around him, I just get so uncomfortable. I feel so bad about it but maybe I’m overreacting. Is this normal? Was this ok? Or am I right to be uncomfortable and not wanting to further a “relationship”. I just don’t feel like that’s what dads do but then again my actual dad was pretty distant so I don’t know. I know that it wasn’t sexual abuse but I just need to know if I’m being dramatic.