my husband got vasectomy done before he met me as he already had 3 kids we’ve been together 6 years married for 2 and he decided that he wanted to have a baby with me so he got it reversed.

This I something I have wanted with him since I met him but in the beginning he made it clear he didn’t want anymore kids so I came to terms with it cause i fell in love with him and I put my desire to have a baby with him to the side and for a long time I never thought about it until, He sits me down and tells me that he wants to have a baby with me and he books himself into getting a reversal which as far as we know went well,

So it’s been sometime now with nothing happening and I am just fed up feeling disappointed and crying every month when my period comes and it’s cause friction with my husband and I because he hates seeing me cry but he doesn’t understand after coming to terms with not having kids to them have someone hand your dream by saying they do want to have a baby and for every month that goes by and nothing happens and the feeling of now I need to wait another month is daunting!

People always say when they stopped trying it happened but how can you stop trying when you know that’s what you want? I can’t physically tell myself that I am not trying anymore because I’d be lying to myself so I don’t get it ?

But right now I am getting to the point it’s making me miserable and I just want to stop feeling this way now.

It’s too hard and I am breaking with it, I don’t know how all you amazing woman out that deal with this for 3 or more years with still no luck it’s actually heartbreaking.