No good guys out there (rant)

I’m dating now, 32yo woman, have my life together, professional, and healthy and well put together. BUT! I haven’t been on a satisfying date in over 3 years. Last guy I had any chemistry with was my ex but he turned out to be toxic. I went to therapy for a year and for the past 2 years I’ve been trying to find a decent guy to date and I just haven’t been attracted to anyone. I’ve searched in different pools of men, but they seem to have significant baggage (divorce, kids, etc) or psychological problems or I just have zero attraction to them. And the men I am attracted to just seem to want sex/can’t bond for an actual serious relationship or we have different priorities in life. I just want a good match and reasonably attractive guy on the same page I am at! How effing hard can this be?!