Am I childish?

Okay so my husband has always played his playstation from the beginning of our relationship there would be nights id go to sleep at 10 and hed still be up at like 6 am playing games but he was 19 now hes 23 we are on our 3rd kid and he expects to come home and play on his game whenever he wants and just provide is what he said to me. He says all his co workers wives let them go out to bars or play games or do whatever they want. Idk if im expecting to much but i thought hed grow up after the years. Hes a good dad when he wants but he says he doesnt feel the need to do things for thw kids when im there or play with them all day every day which I never said that. Idk I try my best but he thinks im so needy. I really dont kmow what to do anymore when I feel like its never 50/50 even when I was the one working..