Miscarriage at 19 weeks 😭😭😭

Susu

I was having pain on Friday at around 4pm. I called my Obgyn. I got their emergency line. I left a message and then they called like 15 minutes after and told me to go to the nearest hospital because my delivery hospital is 30 minutes away so I told her the closest one is East Orlando and she said yes go there. Went there only to find it super busy and they didn’t take me right away. I was in the waiting room for like an hour and then when they took me in I didn’t see a doctor till hours later. The nurses were trying to help me but they didn’t know what to do. I was in the room with my husband not knowing what to do and in pain. Finally 3 hours pass and then they bring the ultrasound machine to my room and I was having really bad contractions by then. The radiologist couldn’t even do the ultrasound but she did her best. Then she sent it out. Still didn’t know I was having a miscarriage. The doctor came in to check if my cervix is closed and she said it was. But I think the tool she put inside me caused my water to break. I started to have to get up from the pain and then my water broke with lots of blood. I made My husband go get the nurse. While the nurses were trying to clean me up I was still standing I passed her out and the nurse that was cleaning me caught her. I hope no one ever goes through this. I never really had to experience doctors in Florida but I can now say from my experience with this pregnancy that they are horrible. So a little back story.. I moved to Orlando from south Florida which I had an Obgyn there but not in Orlando. It was so hard to find an Obgyn that’ll accept Medicaid because I had moved and left my job so I couldn’t afford to keep it with cobra. Anyway I finally found a Dr but they didn’t take me in until I transferred everything which took them about a week and a half to do. By then I had started bleeding at 13 weeks. I went to the emergency room multiple times they kept saying I’m fine and the baby is fine. I called the Obgyn to tell them I need a follow up with them and they said I needed to wait till my appointment over a month from then. The whole time I was bleeding. Finally my appointment comes up and I go in. They gave me an appointment with a PA because I was a transfer. The only thing they did that day was ask questions, Take a basic ultrasound to give me the sex, and do blood work like the genetic test. She kept saying it’s normal for women to bleed. They called me about the genetic test a week after and said everything was normal and confirmed that I was having a girl. The miscarriage happened 2 weeks after they called but during the night of the miscarriage the er doctor told me that my baby had passed away at 16 weeks and 4 days so a couple days after I saw the PA. I feel like if anyone gave a shit I wouldn’t have been going through this. I felt like no one cared and still no one cares from the Obgyn to the hospitals I went to throughout the traumatizing journey