My boyfriend says he doesn't mean to hit me..

My boyfriend says he doesn't choose to hit me cause its not something he is actively thinking about when he's doing it. He told me a few months after we started dating that he gets so mad he "sees red" and I've seen him get like this a lot (Together 5 years, abuse started after a year and a few months).

I was just wondering if he's being abusive or if it could be blamed on anger issues? He refuses to go to therapy or anger management to fix it..

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