My husband is thinking of dropping out.

Me and my husband are 18 and 19. We have been married for 8 months and have a 5 month old. I'm finishing my senior year online. My husband can't do online school so he goes to the High school and goes to work after. I do school from home and call center work from home. My husband is gonna have to redo his senior year next year and sadly isn't graduating. He's autistic and the schools in our district suck. All of them! I have an autistic little brother and all special Ed was in his elementary school was sitting them in front of the tv and letting them eat crayons. Because of how shitty it was my brother is 15 and reads at a 2nd grade level. My point is they don't give him to help he needs. I would help him if I wasn't so busy with school work and any other free time we are both caring for the baby. His parents are telling him to just drop out. He doesn't want to, but his mom is saying he should just work full time at Costco. Both his parents are saying he's wasting his time and will never graduate. They're so fucking toxic and always putting him down and telling him he's stupid. His dad calls him retard all the time. He didn't do very well on an Algebra 2 test and now he's saying maybe he is too retarded for school. It hurts to see him so upset and doubting himself. He's just never gotten proper help.