How to remove hemorrhoids

I have a hemorrhoid that just started getting bigger like over night, I’ve had it for a while now and thought it would go away with the witch hazel pads, but it didn’t make a difference. I don’t want to get surgery yet unless that’s my last option.

Have you tried any remedies, creams? Prescribed or over the counter, doesn’t matter! If you could recommend something that would be great, it’s a big insecurity of mine!