I never finish 😕

Been together 8 years, married for over 2. One child. I have finished maybe a handful of times (with my hands help) and my husband has never made me orgasm without my help. We have sex a decent amount of times and he finishes every single time and then bam, it’s over. I’ve mentioned it before and that it really bothers me but no change. I feel like it’s even gotten more vanilla. Hes not into super crazy stuff but I’m almost completely unsatisfied at this point. I cried last night after sex I was so upset.

My husband is so sweet and I think hes just completely oblivious...I did bring up before that it takes a women a lot more to orgasm than a man and he didn’t believe me. He also said most women don’t need help (clitoral stimulation) 🤦🏻‍♀️

Idk what to do anymore. Please help, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I’ve tried - masturbating beforehand, using vibrator, candles (setting mood), talking about it, etc.