Why is he back...?
Hi I've been married for 5 years already and together for 11 years. Previously I was with my i guess high school sweetheart he ended things in college and I was devastated. At that time I was young and I thought I loved him. After that i found my husband i got pregnant and got married. My ex also got married and has kids. The first time he came back was 4 years ago where we would message each other but I don't know if since I haven't talked to him or maybe he's just another person but I found him very annoying. We stopped talking cause I just didn't like how he acted like he knew everything. Now again he messages me on a social media I haven't been on in awhile and we start talking. I still find him annoying and I hardly message him. But when we do talk its always about us. He let me know that his family found me weird cause I wouldn't speak much back then. Which isn't something I want to hear cause I hate talking our past. I ust try to keep our conversations in the present. Then I have told him that once in a blue moon my family brings him up and I get so annoyed again cause I hate talking about him. He keeps bringing up on why I don't like to talk about him and I've told him I just rather not talk about him. My friend has let me know that when she hangs out with him and his friends they bring me up right in front of his wife. I didn't ask if it was bad or good but after all these why bring me up? Oh and get this the reason why he is even messaging me is cause he's away from home cause he's in a military course. So I know for sure once he goes back he won't message me anymore which I wouldn't be surprised. But why do they come back?
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