Really needing advice and input đ
So my husband randomly said he doesnât want to be together anymore. Over text. We werenât even fighting or anything he just randomly said it. I told him he needs to be very clear because I canât keep guessing how he feels. He said âI donât want you anymoreâ multiple times.. he wanted a divorce. I kept asking why and if there was anyway we could work on this or something. He said thereâs no hope left and he doesnât want to try. He just wants it to be over. So clearly Iâm crushed and panicking because Iâve been a SAHM and I have absolutely nothing. There was nothing going on, no signs this was coming. I literally asked him how work was and in the next breath he was ending our marriage⊠we talked his entire shift at work because I was so confused and I just wanted answers. I wanted him to give us a chance instead of just walking away.
We talked & texted while he was at work. He was very confident and stern that he was done. He was even saying things like âI DID love youâ weâve never gone through break ups or anything. Weâve never been that couple.
I stopped texting him 10 minutes before the end of his shift. He came home and when he walked in he was in tears (first time showing emotion since ruining my life) he hugged me and he loved me. I told him this is making things worse, thatâs not fair to me. Then he says âI donât want to leave. I really donâtâ when I asked if she was 100% serious he said âyes. I know this will be harder for you but I want to just pretend like this never happened. I donât want to think about it anymore. I love you and Iâm sorryâ âŠ. I donât want him to leave. He didnât cheat, heâs not abusive, heâs a genuinely good man. But⊠I canât forgot. I canât pretend it didnât happen. He CRUSHED me. My eyes are swollen from crying literally all night getting absolutely no sleep. Iâll never get his voice out of my head saying âI donât want youâ ⊠I donât know what changed??? He was just in a mood at work and itâs easier to say stuff like that over text? In person he wanted nothing to do with a divorce or leaving. Iâm so confused. I want to be with him. I do. I know many of you will think Iâm stupid. But I want him to WANT to be with me. He swears he does and he says he was being an idiot and he regrets saying all of that so much⊠Iâm still so hurt thoughâŠ
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