In Law Drama

Hey guys so need some advice or opinions! My boyfriend and I have been together for close to two years. We have a beautiful 8 month baby girl so yes we got pregnant super fast lol.

Anyways, within our first year of our relationship I have had different incidents with different people in his immediate family. I’m talking his mom, aunt, uncle, and oh boy his crazy grandma.

They do so much for our daughter which is great and i truly appreciate it but there’s other incidents that I can’t forget.

I’m the type of person to not necessarily forget what you did to me which I admit is probably not the best trait from me. So yes I still hold grudges. There’s trips they plan , parties etc and I hate going to them. I sense they don’t like me and I’m usually spot on. It’s almost like if you don’t respect me as now part of this family and mother of this baby then there’s a problem right?!

We had this huge argument because I said I didn’t want to be apart of a future family trip and my boyfriend made it seem like I was crazy for feeling like this. Like I would’ve like to hear “yes babe, I understand why you feel like that”

Any advice on how to handle in laws ?