My husband is an OTR truck driver. His schedule is supposed to be dedicated but crap happens and he is getting home a day earlier than expected. That sounds nice and all but that means he will be home Sunday and Monday night and then leave early Tuesday. HE ALREADY KNEW my schedule and the whole reason I asked him to try to be here Monday is bc sure I work Monday night but not Tuesday night or Wednesday morning so I would actually get a night with him. I also put it in a months notice at my job May 1st so my last day is supposed to be the 31st and he knows I told them I'd train someone and work whenever before I leave. WELL NOW he is gonna be here late Sunday (so in a few hours) and asked me to call in Monday night to spend one night with him and making me look like the bad guy when I freak out bc not only am I already stressed about a bunch of other crap but he makes me feel guilty for not wanting to call in. I have serious anxiety and at first he seemed fine about being here even though I worked and last second he's telling me "you'd rather be there than be with me" ABSOLUTELY NOT why do you think I'm leaving that job!? I want to be with him but he thinks it's so easy for me to call in like I'm already anxious about leaving in general but now he does this and makes me feel bad.... Now I honestly hope he drives straight through town... He said he might as well do that anyways if I don't call in. But how come at first he was all fine with knowing if he gets here a day early that I will be working but last second makes it a big deal... I feel like breaking something tbh like he must find joy in causing me anxiety he knows I'm in a tough spot rn and he springs that on me and make me feel bad and look bad.. idk what to do