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So I’ve gained weight recently, I’m 148. My bf tells me not to lose weight because he doesn’t like skinny girls, but I just wanna be healthy and be the weight I wanna be. So I insisted on staying the weight I am if he likes it. He’s always looking at skinny girls and in public he always and I mean always looks at girls that are skinny and have nice bodies. Like, looks for a fat min. I just feel insecure :/. He tells me he loves my body which I hate my body but he  likes and looks at other girls bodies

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Leave him. If you’re partner EVER tells you to lose weight and you’re not like morbidly obese, leave. It’s incredibly toxic for him to be doing that. I bet hes not even a charmer himself so for him to be worried about YOUR body even tho you are happy, baffling to me.

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You need to do what you feel is right for your health and your life. Boyfriends come and go, but you only have one body and one life. Now, 148 doesn’t sound heavy to me, but I’m 5’8 so my perspective may be off. If you’re overweight for your age and height and you want to feel better, lose the weight. Don’t let him hold you back. 
devils advocate here, are you sure he’s gawking at these thin women? Is there any chance your own insecurities are convincing you of that? I would say speak to him. If he really is doing that, it’s disrespectful and you deserve better. You should feel like the only woman he sees. Explain how you feel. That is the only way you’re gonna get anywhere.

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