IM ABOUT TO GO OFF

Ya’ll pray for me, because the fuckers have me about to lose my mind. I made a post around Easter about my narcissistic cult-like-family who shunned, blackmailed and bullied me, all because I didn’t want to go or take my kids to an Easter Dinner at the house where they allowed someone to SA me for 10+ years.

I haven’t had contact with them since then, but I do talk to my older sister, who has contact with them but doesn’t agree with their values or behaviors. Well she woke me up yesterday freaking out because my little sister got into an argument with her BF, I guess her BF got mad and threw a shampoo bottle and it bounced off the wall and hit her. My little sister got upset and sent my paternal “aunt” a picture of the red mark it left on her arm and told her what happened. “Aunt” called our “dad”. At this point my sister had kicked him out, told him he couldn’t take their baby and he has all his shit out of her house. His dad picked him up and took him 4 hours away to his parents house. Mind you, BF doesn’t have a car. My sister told him they’d work out a parenting agreement and the drama was done, or so they thought.

Our “dad” told her she needed to file a PO. Little sister said she didn’t feel it was necessary because he lives 4 hours away, he’s never been violent before, they were officially done for good, he has no car and she doesn’t want their baby to not be able to see dad. She also said she wasn’t innocent in the argument, she provoked him and he wouldn’t have acted that way if she had kept her hands to herself. Our “Dad” is furious. So what does he do? He calls her ex- husband and tell him that she’s allowing her BF to beat her kids and her, not true at all. Her Ex-husband (who has 50/50 of their sons) tells her that because our “Dad” is saying that, she won’t see the boys again and he’s taking her back to court. The boys are 2, and apparently they told their dad after him asking them, that BF spanks them with a belt which my sister is adamantly denying, she believes they were coached.

So then our “dad” tells her that this will all go away if she files a PO, but again, my sister doesn’t feel that’s necessary. That’s for people who’s lives are at risk, hers isn’t. He’s not stalking her, he’s not abusing her, one argument that got blown up. That’s all. So our “Dad” tells her that she’s going to lose all her kids and calls DHS saying that theres DV in front of the children.

My older sister (who has a diff. Dad than me and our little sister) tells our sister that she told me (little sister and I aren’t on good terms right now). I didn’t say anything to anyone. I was just told. I never Reached out to my sister or anyone. It’s not business and I can’t get back involved with that cult-family. I’ve been doing therapy and doing good, I can’t let them back in. My little sister wasn’t mad I knew, they’re doing everything to her, that they did to me. I was able to escape their hold with my kids, thankfully, she’s scared she can’t, because they have money and she has nothing.

Well our “dad” calls my big sister. She was wondering why Everytime their is drama in his family, he calls her, because she’s not his kid and they don’t have that kind of relationship. I told her what my therapist told me, that he wants to get in her head before anyone else can tell her what happened so she can stay “loyal” to him. Well she asked him why he was starting all

This drama, why he isn’t just minding his own business and letting us handle our own lives? He told her that “we are messing up our lives and he has to help, and what we won’t let him see our kids”. I have my own house, my own car, I work and I go to nursing school, I have Full custody of my kids, how am I messing up? I don’t drink party or so drugs. I don’t even smoke (no hate to who do). Well she tells him how good I’m doing, especially since I have 2 special needs children. So then and him and his family post on FB to the PUBLIC that they will be seeking council to help “institutionalize” me because I’m “mentally unstable”. How? Apparently me coming out about my sexual abuse and rape for 10+ years from my grandfather is “lies”, even though 4 other girls have came forward. Apparently I’m making up my kids Autism and physical delays, hearing loss and vision issues for attention and a disability check because I’m “too lazy” to work (I have a job and go to school, so shows how much they know). I don’t even get disability for my kids because I’m scared to file because of this exact backlash. Apparently I was able to convince over 10+ doctors and therapists that my 2 kids have disabilities. I’m that good of a manipulator. I don’t know why they’re suddenly coming for me and my kids when I didn’t even do anything. I figured he was going to anyways, because that’s how he is.

Advice or suggestions?