I want to know how I can stop being easily irritated by my husband. I act lovingly and respectfully towards him and then the smallest things will set me off. By that I don’t mean that I yell at him or anything, I’m just annoyed by things he says and does and my attitude changes from loving and respectful and sweet to withdrawn and irritated and snappy. I am only this way with him, I have patience for miles with anyone else. At first I chalked it up to PMS but I’m a few days past my period and still feel this way. I reallyyyyy want to stop being this way. I fear that I have unresolved resentment. I hope it’s not that. We have a rocky history and I’ve endured some things. Yeah I still love him. But I’m irritated by him an disproportionate amount. The lovely dovey: move don’t touch me ratio is way off. Idk if this has happened with anyone else. 12% of me thinks that sex will easy the frustrations but 88% is sure it will end in disappointment anyway. We haven’t had sex since the first week of this month. In theory, I want be intimate with him but in reality he has displayed some behaviors that dry out my pussy. So even when I intend “today is gonna be the day I lay it on my man, rawr!” Something also seems to happen that causes me to recoil 😑. So I want to know how I can get past the annoyances? To be clear: when I am annoyed or irritated by him, it is not long term. I can turn right around and give him a hung and get over it, it’s just Im no longer sexual attracted and far from aroused.