Sneak away

OK before anybody says anything I know the thought here “ if you have to hide it why are you doing it”. But I really need to sneak away overseas, but my parents cannot know at first. Even though I am close to 30, they will not support this at all and more than likely cut me off. But honestly they will find out anyway Because I cannot just say I am in another state, that would only work for a few days. They don’t approve of the guy, whom I hava never met. Whom I really love and care for me and he loves me unconditionally. And I feel like keep playing games with him because I think maybe there could be a way this could work out