I want to have date nights with my husband or just a regular date during the day but he always wants to bring the kids along. I feel neglected as a wife.

Sometimes my mil asks us to leave our youngest with her so we could rest more & my mom has offered to stay with the oldest but he just doesn’t wanna do anything. Only thing he does is things for himself like car meets, play soccer with friends or just spend time with him friends & the minute we have both kids with us, he wants us all to go out.

Idk, maybe I’m just being selfish 😕