Involvement

If you weren’t with the father of your child, while you were pregnant was he still involved? As in would he check on you and the baby every now and then or did he go MIA and just wait till the baby was born to step up? I haven’t talked to mine and he says there’s no point until the baby is here... but also says he doesnt want me talking to nobody while I’m pregnant bc it’s like their talking to his kid too. And that just sounds contradicting to me...