Hey, I’m posting on here because I don’t really know who else to ask lol but I’ve been kinda interested in bdsm and seen this kit on Amazon and wanted to purchase it.... it comes with the basic ropes, ties, ball and gag, etc and I wanted to use with the person I’ve been hooking up with and for future boyfriends/ hookups and etc.... would it look weird if I buy this since I’m so young and not in a relationship and how would I ask the people I’m hooking consistently to use it on me... the person I’m hooking up with now says he’ll will but I’m just thinking about future people?