As much as I can’t wait to see my little baby, I am dreading and terrified of what is to come. This will be our first child, my husband and I are both military, we are living in Italy hes been here 3 months and I’m going on 1 month of being here. We are obviously new here so we hardly know anyone. I am 4 months pregnant with a due date of November, my husband just got tasked on a deployment to Romania for December. I am terrified, I will be left completely alone in a new, different country with no help from anyone, where if my baby gets sick and I have to take them to the dr I will need to find a translator first, completely on my own with no one around to help with a newborn while I myself am trying to heal as well. I wish my mother could come and help me heal and help care for the baby while I’m recovering but she knows about the situation and hasn’t even mentioned at least visiting. Which honestly hurts, she had my grandmother help her out with my brother when he was born. She stayed with us for 3 months and this was not her first rodeo she had me which I was 12 years old and her husband and we were only a few hours away from our family. I’m going to be alone in a complete different country and she can’t even suggest at least visiting. I don’t really know what to expect with my recovery or how I’m going to deal with all the new things to me that come with parenting. I am truly petrified, please anyone have any advice at all?