I am having gastric sleeve surgery in about 1-2 weeks.

I am slowly telling people.

My mom and dad know.

One friend of mine who is like a sister to me knows.

Family and friends some of my family and friends had it done where I consulted about having the surgery that is why they know.

My dance teachers because I won’t be dancing for a few weeks. Just told them having surgery exactly what no.

For some reason I am having trouble telling my siblings, my work mom, and mainly my boyfriend of almost 10 years.

I know it is my choice for me to tell and not tell anyone. These are the people I want to tell but don’t know how to word it. Can someone help give advice please.