Husband on Tinder & Update

Last night I received a text from one of my husbands old classmates that she had found my husband on tinder. Sure enough she sent me screenshots and he had used our wedding photos for his profile!

Fast forward to this morning after he left for work I got on his iPad which is attached to his iPhone & found messages between him and a female but the odd thing is the number is from New Jersey & we are from Michigan. Tried calling it & it won’t even ring! He swears up and down that he was hacked and he doesn’t know how a tinder was made.... is that even possible?? I’ve never used tinder and don’t know how it works. I also looked on his email and found out he purchased a gold subscription. But again said that he was hacked and apple support were helping fix the issue.

I’m hurt, the text between him and whoever he was texting were painful. He was going to meet up with this random person late at night & they had every intention to hook up. We have a 1 year old and I’m currently pregnant! Sorry for the long post.. I just need to vent.

A little update: since posting this we have chatted, I know the tinder was all him even tho he can’t admit it & on top of that he said “I wanted to make you upset”.. (we were fighting the night his tinder was found) AND I found more dating profiles from November 2020 literally days before my grandpa passed from covid! Thank you all for your responses!