Hey guys I’m just so depressed, my husband and I are totally failing at being sexy! We got together when we were young and didn’t have to do much and we would get turned on. Now that we both are a bit older we don’t find each other compatible in bed. For him I don’t dirty talk and try hard even tho I think I do I feel like he judges me bec I have an accent and he did tell me that he doesn’t find my accent sexy. I also don’t wear lingerie. We have’nt tried Sex toys but I feel like he never tries anything, all he does is lay there and wants me to ride or do missionary, I never cum with his dick, he used to finger me but he only does it for two secs and gives up! He also doesn’t know how to stimulate enough! I am 9 weeks postpartum and he is complaining that I’m not trying enough, I tried to ride him but it kinda stings and I’m scared Bec I had a third degree and he tells me you don’t have sex without drama! I mean how the hell am I supposed to get stimulated. I feel like he is selfish about sex and doesn’t enjoy giving me pleasure at all. Please give me advice and don’t be too rude I am already quite broken.