Have/ would you masturbate in bed when spouse is sleeping?

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Last night my husband said he was tired and chafed down there from working in the heat all the day so he wasn't interested in sex. When he fell asleep, I was still feeling horny so I took matters into my own hands. Literally. 😅 It was the first time I did it in bed beside him and I'll admit it felt weird. I would have much preferred having sex, but at least I could fall asleep then. Just curious how common this is.

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I haven’t done this yet, as I don’t live with my partner, but I would inform your partner about it to make sure they are fine with you doing that. Even if they are your partner, you need to make sure they don’t feel uncomfortable when you do stuff like that next to them when they are asleep.

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Omg I do this all the time! Lmao my husband also works very hard all day working on cars, by the end of the day he's exhausted! I'll wait until I hear him snoring and then get my little bedside buddy out lol it is weird at first but I know I'm not doing anything wrong lol. His days off we usually have sex but I get it he's tired. It's not like it's cheating 🤪

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My husband has woke up in the middle of me doing it and I was so embarrassed... but he just immediately started having sex with me.... so....

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I’ve never done this but my husband has. Doesn’t bother me.

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Lol yes if I feel like masturbating I will. If he hears me though, he wants to roll over and join in

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Yep lol we both have. Neither of us mind

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I wouldn't, I used to leave the room when I actually lived with a partner, or waited until they were doing something in another room.

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Literally all the time, he works 16 hour days and does not care that I do it.