So, in my country we do weddings different from the government I'll explain everything : stage 1: the family and elder of the man go and talk to the family and elder of the woman stage 2: there they decide if they approve of the union( if they dont agree the other stages wont be done) stage 3: the man's family get a LIST of things they HAVE TO buy or gather for THE BRIDE( the bride price) stage 4: the man and the woman can live together while the man's family buy everything on the list( it takes a while to buy everything though) stage 5: when the man's family buys everything on the list, both families come together for a feast and The Bride Price at the center of it all( most of the time the woman already falls pregnant which would prove to the elders of the man that the woman can conceive)( im on stage 4 and trying so hard to get pregnant before my bf's( actually husband) family is done buying my bride price😥 but there is so much pressure😥 i've been trying for 12months now...still nothing and i found out i have PID this month, i cant try this month🤦🏿‍♀️( but im not giving up The Most High will help me get pregnant)....i believe(i'm probably the only one with this problem i fear)😪